About Me

我出生在一个小康之家,经历过家庭破裂和被追债的日子,造就了今天的我。1998年以前,父亲因为工作的缘故时常不在家里。脑海中没有与父亲的相处的回忆。大概在1998年,父亲毅然放弃了稳定收入的打工生活,转而在自己家里开始做批发水果生意,为的就是要多陪在家人的身边。生意成长快速,让我父亲当时有能力买下一间店面,并计划未来开间冰淇淋制造厂。然而,好景不长,生意上现金周转不灵,加上父亲好赌成性,导致生意在2001年结束,并维持了大约1年的无事业状态。在这期间,家里除了依靠储蓄来生活,也开始自己卖些豆奶来维持生计。这就是永远烙印在我脑海里最艰苦的回忆。

大约在2002年,父亲开始开档卖鸡饭。刚开始,生意稳定也有不错的收入,并且在2003年搬迁至自己租下的店面。往后,财务状况再一次陷入了危机,并且艰苦经营。最后在2006年画了不完美的句号。

从此,我就认定是缺乏金钱导致破坏了我快乐的家,并带来了各种各样痛苦的生活。好些日子我都陷入在痛苦的决定当中,并且希望自己能够以自己的劳力和青春换来金钱,以弥补我那破碎的家。这样强烈的想法一直都在我脑海中,一直到我遇到了《富爸爸.穷爸爸》这本书。那时2006年4月,这本书告诉了我什么是金钱,更改变了我对金钱的看法,一直到今天。

25/09/2011 16:01

耶和华所赐的福使人富足,并不加上忧虑。(箴言 10:22)
The blessing of the LORD brings wealth, and he adds no trouble to it. (Proverbs 10:22)


I born in a small family, where I experienced broken relationship and suffered from debt, which had shaped me until today. At year 1998, my father left his job and started his business by export fruits to Singapore. My father's intention to accompany family as he had absented most the time before year 1998. This business was growth very fast and stable for two years make my father bought a two storey shoplot. However, the insufficient of cash flow into the turn over in business make it turning down and finally shut down the business by year 2001. Losing money in gambling also another factor of business failure.

My father start another business in late year 2002 by selling chicken rice in a stall. This business growth steadily and my father develop it to a bigger business by move to a self-rented shop lot in the next year. The business running good but affected by old and new debt. Finally, it shut down again by year 2006.

Start from that, I am sure the situation of "lacking money" is the source of broken family. At that time, I hope I can work harder and longer time to get more money, which I assume this may help my family needs. In April 2006, my mind on money has changed due to a book titled <Rich Dad, Poor Dad>, which the author shared a good theory about what the money is.

25/09/2011 16:01

3 comments:

Marvyn Choong 锺俊洁 said...

家家有本难念的经。
我比你幸运一点因为早你 5 年接触理财的书。
无论如何,过去的事就让它过去。
有句话说得好,"Born Rich is Fate, Die Poor is Sin!"
让我们一起加油,为人生打造不一样的天空。。。

SingBlueSilver said...

你好,希望大家能在追求财务自由的路上一起加油吧。 谢谢你放我的blog的连接,我也把你的blog的连接放进我的blog了。

明仔(Anson) said...

现在的你过得很不错,也许这些事情让你成长了很多~加油